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Want to stir up some hot erotic fun by yourself or with a buddy? Here’s how you can do it… and make it last! Fun! A lot of guys struggle from porn addiction. We use our favorite hot scenes because they’re fun, but sometimes we wind up depleted… or find ourselves using porn when it’s not even fun anymore. This exercise is designed to use porn as a catalyst for excitement, and to find out what happens when that excitement is allowed to course through our bodies for more than the “standard” 5 or 10 minutes! The basic principle is simple: the more pleasure and excitement we can stir up in our body, the more energetic fuel we’ll have for health, vitality, fun, and magic! Yum! So here’s what you do: • see if you can devote a full hour or more to pleasuring yourself. • find an erotic video that just excites the living fuck out of you! Yeah, it can be that one that gets you off the fastest. We all know how to whack off and we know what excites the fuck out of us. Today, however, we’re trying something new: prolonged ecstatic pleasure. Yay-ah! • if you want to do this exercise with a lover, partner, or fuckbuddy, my suggestion is that each of you get a separate laptop or tablet so that you can each watch your favorite fuck-flick side-by side. Why? Variety is the spice of life, and chances are we each have our own special turn-ons. You might even see what it’s like to angle your screens and mute the volume so that you can see and hear each other but not each other’s porn flick. He’s actually probably going to really love seeing you excited, and doesn’t really have to see what’s on your screen at all, because it’s fucking exciting to see you excited! • get fucking excited! You picked this video because it excites you so much you can’t stand it, and now, you get to find out what it feels like to dance in that excitement! Stand up! Put on your favorite music in the background! Dance. Shake your balls up and down, hands-off! Feel how good it feels to stimulate your own dick, just by using gravity to move it! You might get so excited that you cum without even touching yourself. That’s fine! Have fun exciting yourself in creative new ways…like by using gravity and the weight of your stiff dick and balls! • breathe! That hot erotic scene in front of your face might want to make you whack it and cum, but try this instead: sit and let your cock throb! Come on…what’s it like to witness excitement, and be excited? Breathing is what makes this possible. Can you breathe, all the way up from your balls to your belly to your heart to your head? Focus on some deep belly breaths, up from your cock, ass and balls and into your belly. Can you feel how that hot cock-and-ball energy surges up into the core of your being, igniting the fire of life in you? Yeah! Breathe deep, long, slow, full breaths while you throb. (hands-off, loverboy!) why am I doing this? You might be asking. You’re doing it because excitement is fun! , we usually want to get off quickly because we feel we shouldn’t be excited or that excitement isn’t good for us. What about blue balls? That condition doesn’t exist, especially in this case. Breathe. See what it’s like to relax deeply, even while you’re excited. Whether you’re sitting in a chair or standing, move your body around and shake it out! If you’re doing this with a lover or friend, maybe try looking into each other’s eyes and synchronizing your breaths so that you breathe in… and out… together… for 5 minutes or so at the time. • touch yourself everywhere except your cock. Massage your body with oil, especially your abdomen (the mid-way point between the balls and the heart), where energy often gets stuck in men. Move energy out of your core, outward to your sides, and up into your heart. Massage out from your heart, down your hands, and down from your tingling, excited pelvis, down your legs! Massage yourself all over, while your cock throbs. • stroke your dick in creative ways. One great way to keep the energy high without going all the way over the edge is to place your palm flat on the underside of your upright cock, and gently move it back and forth while you continue to experiment with creative breathing patterns. • cum? You know you wanna cum, and there’s no reason you shouldn't. It’s hot to let that cum go when you’ve played with your excitement for a nice long while and are shaking from head to toe! We just created this exercise to see how long you could prolong your excitement, and so you could find out what it feels like to be present in that excitement—by yourself or with a lover. The first time you do this, 10 minutes might be all you can stand. (a great way to experiment with how long you can go is to set a timer, and gradually increase the time each time you do it.) for some of us, being full-on excited for 30 minutes or more could be a great feat, but until we try it, we won’t know what it’s like! In tantra, my teacher says, “everything is an experiment”. It’s up to us to give it a try, see how it works, play with it, and inspire ourselves. Anyway… when you’re ready to cum, you might consider holding magical intentions in your heart, or having your aspirations, dreams, or positive affirmations written somewhere where you can see them. Affirming our life’s existence when we’re cumming is genuinely a magical practice, capable of catapulting us into the next level of our life’s dreams. So you’re ready to cum? Enjoy! If you’re doing this with a lover, you’re probably ready to tear into each other like wild animals! Good! Some of us really could use a rekindling of our passion, and if that’s what has happened for you as a result of this creative, fun, dick-throbbing little exercise, then what better way to say thank you than by shooting your load all over a canvas filled with your dreams… or all over each other. Amen, and blessed be.
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Duration: 2:55
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